Aderuopo, maybe thats what some people want to hear me call
myself when I tell them I'm African. Or maybe they want to feel a struggle in
pronouncing my name; so then they can identify me as African. Anyways I go by
the name Felix, which is a very special name to me and not hard at all to
pronounce. My last name Asiedu, which people sometimes struggle to pronounce;
then the question comes, "where are you from?" I come from Ghana,
West Africa, born into a family of eight, hold high values, excellence is
hallmark, and anything less than college is tantamount to failure. I was
thought as a child to trust in God alone because he makes everything possible,
and I've always been grateful for everything that happens to me, especially
finding myself and my family living in the US and the UK. I have been living in
the US for 4 years now, one of the best things that ever happened to me. "In God
We Trust", that's the motto of the US, and I was surprised to come here
and find out people are not even religious like I kinda expected.
In a world where everyone is focused on the flashy lights, money and fame, I'm burnt on the emancipation of love. The love in playing soccer and watching my favorite teams play each week and not the monetary side where you've got to place a bet on any team at all that is winning. The love in writing a short article and highliting a huge point that has been overlooked and standing up for it. The love in being free not because of what you have, but because of what you don't have to worry about, because you don't have it. The love in living life because it's for the living. A strong passion for adventure travels. I travel to different corners in the UK every year while I base in Manchester, or London with my brothers. Love new places and new things. I love parties, clubbing, being quiet in my room and drinking my beer. A very shy person at first encounter with people but I open up more once I become comfortable, wish I could do better.
College came with extra pressure on me because that's the least expectation in my family. High school diploma never considered an achievement, and the love for quick money never supported. Currently attending GCC for my prerequisites in Nursing, so therefore I can transfer to ASU for my bachelors. College was never all about the grades to me, I was looking to develop my personality as well. In my sophomore year, and the journey's been good so far. I love GCC because it's very close to my house, and my part-time workplace. I have made a lot of friends and I can say that I spend most of my daily life on campus. The pressure and stress never stops but you keep on moving and not quit. Sometimes a single assignment is enough to drown you. You get two weeks to submit and you only do some shabby work on the last day, or maybe you create a lie to come tell the instructor; I promise you we've all been there before. I always try to get myself involved in everything that's happening around me the best way possible. Secretary for "Pathways to African Unity, GCC", a club for students of African descent at GCC.
My little world is full of peace and the love of God, staying out of trouble which could still come anyways, help for humanity, and respect for one another should you care to know.